Divorce is never easy, but many expect that the split will be amicable. Sometimes, once the parties are in accord on all significant matters, including property division, children, and spousal support, divorces may be quicker, less stressful, and cheaper. But even when everything appears to have been worked through, an uncontested divorce can sometimes devolve into a contested one.
Understanding why uncontested divorces become contested divorces can help you prepare for potential challenges and take steps to avoid them.
Below are four common reasons why an uncontested divorce may take a sudden turn.
1. Disagreements Over Financial Matters
An uncontested divorce may become contested because of disagreements over financial matters. Even though a couple might agree at the outset on how their assets, debts, or spousal support will be divided, people often start arguing when issues of money come into play. New information about the existence of some hidden assets, including disagreements about what shared property is worth, can also fuel disputes not present at the outset.
At other times, however, one of the parties feels that the original settlement was unfair and wants a greater share of the marital property. This can create conflict, which may prolong the divorce procedure and increase the costs because the couple may now need to appeal the issue in court.
2. Changes in Child Custody or Support Plans
Generally, child custody and child support plans are always contentious in divorce. Even when a couple agrees to a plan during the uncontested phase, changes in life situations such as a job relocation or remarriage may cause disagreements. Disputes as to who will have primary custody or pay a huge chunk of child support can easily make a divorce turn from being uncontested to contested.
Custody battles often become emotional, and each parent may feel strongly about what is best for their child. Where such emotions take a front seat, what was initially an uncontested divorce can turn contentious, and these parents will require judicial intervention to present their case with a final verdict.
3. Emotional or Mental Health Issues
Unresolved anger, resentment, or feelings of betrayal may surface in the process. Mental health issues or emotional instability can also create problems in making the couple cooperative at a given time.
Even agreements reached by the couple under such circumstances may then be challenged, and the case would turn into a contested divorce as one spouse becomes less willing to give in.
4. Influence from Family and Friends
External interference from family members, friends, or even a new love interest can turn an uncontested divorce into a contested one. Other voices may be advising the party to “fight for a better deal” or that they are being treated worse than they were.
Increased pressure can cause a person to have a change of heart or dispute matters already agreed upon.
Interventions by family members and friends, in this case, may only fuel more conflict and prolong the divorce process.
Conclusion
While uncontested divorces are often faster and less stressful, they can still become contested due to unforeseen circumstances. Disagreements over finances, child custody changes, emotional challenges, and outside influences are just a few reasons why uncontested divorces become contested divorces.
By being aware of these potential pitfalls and seeking professional legal guidance, couples can better prepare for the process and avoid unnecessary complications.
